UNDERSTANDING A MAN

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UNDERSTANDING A MAN! How do we go about it? I learnt it is easy to understand a man but it becomes the more you look the less you see. Now here is the truth from Renee Wade: It’s funny how we ladies particularly talk about how men are this and men are that, and how men are jerks, but then our relationships with the MEN makes all the difference in the quality of our lives. Men can make your life more comfortable….they can support you, worship you, do things for you that you can’t even imagine. But when you allow another woman poison your mind with too much negativity you will start thinking these guys are the worst people around.  

The key to mastering men is this: knowing that your fears are the very thing that rob you off the security and passion you want with a man.
Female fears (fear of abandonment, fear of being cheated on, fear of men having bad intentions) robs us of the very thing that we wish we had.
No matter what you do as a woman, no matter how GREAT your man is, your own feminine mind always has its criticisms, fears, and you always seem to have reason to doubt a man. It’s constantly succumbing to these fears that makes your life miserable (Renee wrote).

I think it’s important to acknowledge that the fears and worries are there: our creator put them there, to help us survive. The MORE women criticize, the LESS happy they seem in men’s eyes. The LESS happy a woman is, the more stressed men get. The more stressed men get, the more likely they are to try and fix the problem for the woman. In a way, nature has made men unconscious slaves to female happiness.

But don’t be too quick to run out and manipulate this tendency in men: they can only take so much. Isn’t it the same with you? If a man is constantly stressed around you, he feels bad around you. The more he feels BAD around you, the more he associates the bad feeling with YOU, and with being with YOU.

Very soon…any other woman’s smile seems far more valuable than the complaining, unhappy, unenergetic girlfriend. Wouldn’t you feel dissatisfied too, if you were with a man who had no time for you and seemed to ignore your needs and refuse to understand YOU? The fact remains that some other women WILL hate you for having compassion towards men because you are not on the same track with punishing them.  But then, don’t get SUCKED IN to other women’s fear about men!
Not all men are Great (obviously) YES. Some men don’t want the best for you. But I don’t believe you’re THAT stupid, to not know when a man really does have bad intentions for you. You may ignore it, and make bad decisions sometimes, but you are definitely not stupid.

Culled From Renee Wade's Article