Most times some men often think that women are very difficult to handle, this is not always true. Those times all they crave for one thing......
I read this piece by Ifeanyi Ifebi and I thought I could share.
"I was having a chat with my woman this morning and she said something that hit me, though in the right place... She said many men are quick to relax when a woman says she is fine even when its obvious through her demeanor that she is not.
She said it because she knows I have a habit of being inquisitive when i know my woman isn't alright instinctively. I will make sure I lovingly pet her till she tells me what is bothering her. In as much as she likes her privacy, she loves ...it when i do that.
I discovered that secret when I had a chat with my female principal in secondary school. I went to buy her lunch and when i got back, i saw her hubby begging her to tell him what was wrong, she was reluctant saying she was fine, about 20-25 minutes later, she later told him what was wrong. Later in the day, i saw her smiling which was a sharp contrast to how she looked earlier that day. Then she muttered to her vice principal... "he is a gem, he knows when i am not ok and he knows how to get me to talk no matter how i try to hide it". I never forgot that statement. It was obvious that sharing he issues with her hubby made her happy and relieved.
I read this piece by Ifeanyi Ifebi and I thought I could share.
"I was having a chat with my woman this morning and she said something that hit me, though in the right place... She said many men are quick to relax when a woman says she is fine even when its obvious through her demeanor that she is not.
She said it because she knows I have a habit of being inquisitive when i know my woman isn't alright instinctively. I will make sure I lovingly pet her till she tells me what is bothering her. In as much as she likes her privacy, she loves ...it when i do that.
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| Ifeanyi Ifebi |
I discovered that secret when I had a chat with my female principal in secondary school. I went to buy her lunch and when i got back, i saw her hubby begging her to tell him what was wrong, she was reluctant saying she was fine, about 20-25 minutes later, she later told him what was wrong. Later in the day, i saw her smiling which was a sharp contrast to how she looked earlier that day. Then she muttered to her vice principal... "he is a gem, he knows when i am not ok and he knows how to get me to talk no matter how i try to hide it". I never forgot that statement. It was obvious that sharing he issues with her hubby made her happy and relieved.
Women are special beings, there are things about them that we men need to learn. When you ask a woman if anything is wrong and she says no with sagging shoulders and a forlorn look, there is a problem. Don't take her "fine" to mean that she is ok. She won't mind if you probe deeper to find what the problem is. Even though she may not like it, she will appreciate it. Because it shows interest from your part.
There is a caveat to this, before you can be able to know a woman has something bothering her even when she is faking it, you must have a connection with her, the beginning of a strong bond.
I can tell if my woman is not ok from the sound of her voice over the phone, ninety percent of the time, i am right. The only way is to bond with her.
Friendship and adequate communication is important. Add quality time and you guys will begin to sense things about each other.
It is hard work, but can be done. One of the beautiful things in relationship is when two people begin to see each other as best friends and start to develop a bond that can never be broken.
To my fellow men, women can not be completely known. But when you work hard to know the woman you are with, the knowledge that you know her to a certain extent will make her go over the moon.
They are not difficult beings. They just want to be understood and loved!"
There is a caveat to this, before you can be able to know a woman has something bothering her even when she is faking it, you must have a connection with her, the beginning of a strong bond.
I can tell if my woman is not ok from the sound of her voice over the phone, ninety percent of the time, i am right. The only way is to bond with her.
Friendship and adequate communication is important. Add quality time and you guys will begin to sense things about each other.
It is hard work, but can be done. One of the beautiful things in relationship is when two people begin to see each other as best friends and start to develop a bond that can never be broken.
To my fellow men, women can not be completely known. But when you work hard to know the woman you are with, the knowledge that you know her to a certain extent will make her go over the moon.
They are not difficult beings. They just want to be understood and loved!"
