Before you start thinking that going to a man's house to cook and wash for him will make him wanna marry you also ask yourself these questions:
- Does He Really Care About Cooked Food?
A lot of guys eat out every now and then and they are used to it, so filling his freezer with assorted soups and stew when he barely stays at home, cannot even use his unless you come around can be useless. Big FAIL to your plans hun.
- Does He Do His Laundry?
You just came around and saw his wash basket filled with unwashed clothes and you felt ahaa let me help him wash, he will definitely appreciate me doing his laundry and voila, everything is washed out clean and ironed too... Huh?? Have you asked yourself if he has been using the dry cleaners? That won't mean a thing to him sweetie... He doesn't wash so won't know what it feels like. Another FAIL!
- Movies. Really?
You bought some movies that you want both of you to see together?
Because he barely stays at home whenever he sits just for a few minutes he will think its another time to just relax, watch it he's already dozing off on you... Sorry babes... Triple FAILURE!
- He Hangs Out A Lot.
Ok from all indication he's not the home type and you told him "sweetie i know you're always bored so I'm coming to keep you company" oh no please....... Don't....... The boredom will possess you... He's not even at home!
- Wait A Minute.
Do you even know this guy? I don't think so. Now you see why babes will end up with lines like "after everything i did for him, he left me for someone else" i am so SORRY love. Talk about being somebody's type? You guys won't go together...at all.
- What You Should Do?
I think you know that already, take your time and understand him first before you head to his house. Communication is KEY. When you talk to him, when you relate with him, feel his vibes, learn him, constantly communicating will definitely make him more open. Be fun to be with, don't be rigid, let it flow and who he is will be made open to you. All you need to know including his likes and dislikes, what he does for fun and what bores him will be clearer to you. And when you find out, you will know whether to take off or hang in there.
