9 THINGS TO DO THAT WILL MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER.

Sometimes we just can't help but think of ways to improve our relationships. The fun of relationships is to always find something new to make it fresher by the day so I found this on Anthony's Words Of Wisdom For Women and thought I should share.

9 THINGS TO DO THAT WILL MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER.
Every relationship has it's problems but there are a few things that both of you can do to
make it better. Below are just 9 of them. Put these in action and watch how much more happier in your relationship you will be.

1. LISTEN TO EACH OTHER - When you listen and
give the other person a chance to talk, you will
hear what they are saying. In what they are
saying, many times comes the answer that can
solve the problem. Also when you are
listening, don't be thinking about what you are
going to say next, because if you are doing that,
you really are not listening.

2. DON'T TALK OVER ONE ANOTHER - If I'm trying
to say something and you are trying to say
something at the same time, we are not going
to hear what the other person is saying. All this
is going to do is get us even more angry and
holler and scream louder which makes the
situation even worse.

3. HEAR THE WHOLE STORY - Many times when
you are listening to your partner, sometimes
you can immediately cut them off after only
listening for 10 seconds because you THINK you
know what they are about to say. Don't do that.
Some people take a little longer to get things
about.

4. BE PATIENT - If you are with a person that takes
a little time to get things out, you have to be
patient. This is the way they are and have been
all their life. You not being patient will not only
make you feel frustrated but make your
partner feel frustrated as well.

5. LEARN TO ADMIT WHEN YOU ARE WRONG - This
is the hardest thing that can cause divisions in a
relationship. There is nothing wrong with being
wrong. We are all human but if you know you
are wrong about a situation in your
relationship, just be mature enough to say (I
Was Wrong).

6. DON'T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS - If you jump to
conclusions before you have any facts, it will
cause problems. Sometimes situations may not
appear as they seem. Before jumping to a
conclusion, talk to your partner and find out
their side of the story. You might find that
there is an explanation to what just happened.

7. ASK QUESTIONS - You should be able to talk to
your partner about anything. Communicating
through conversation and asking questions will
always help your relationship. If you want to
know something that will ease your mind about
something that is going on in your relationship,
ask questions.

8. BE HONEST - Lying in your relationship is not
good. If you lie, even if it is a small lie as many
people say and your partner finds out, they will
question everything that you have said in the
past as well as in the future. You never want
that doubt to be in your partner's head.

9. DO SOMETHING YOUR PARTNER LIKES TO DO -
A relationship is not all about 1 person. You
can't have your way all the time, just like your
partner can't have their way all the time. There
is nothing wrong with instead of it being about
you this time, make it about your partner. Do
things that your partner likes to do as well.
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