Why You Should Be Open In A Relationship

Most times couples get to find out that the person they actually thought they knew has suddenly turn to someone else. They are will now start sounding like the Nigerian R&B singer Darey Art Alade "..you are not the girl I use to know.."

When you are in a relationship learn not to pretend, it will save you a whole of pain in the future. I will say it again if you snore, eat too much, scatter the whole place, talk too much etc don't hide it, let it be known on time. Tell your partner what makes you go crazy, If the person can handle it then he/she will continue.

pretense is one dangerous seed in relationships unfortunately some people already acquired their M.Sc in the said course. This is where you let the Spirit of God guide and order your steps. Yes pray about everything you do. Bes sure to say what's on your mind and don't just accept what you don't like. It is important to let the cat out of the bag then explain if need be so you don't end up being blamed for not speaking up. We can save our future by just being real. If you want to be accepted the way you are then you need to love and accept yourself the way you are. Be honest and open enough.

Share your feelings, talk about it, practice a healthy dialogue before going into marriage so you can find it easy when you are finally there. Although some people find it difficult to be open or to share anything about themselves, the more free you become, the better and easier things will be. So practice the act of expressing yourself as early as possible.

The time to bring up those issues is now, don't wait until you are engaged or married to regret saying or doing something earlier. Getting married to someone who is good looking is nice no doubt but what matters is weather they will be there hanging on with you when things change, because there's every tendency that things will change, will they be able understand the real you?